Friday, December 14, 2007
Reality Check
In Senegal the government pays for every student to attend the University, if accepted. This includes housing and a small living stipend that gets disbursed once a month. Upon first hearing this, my fiscally conservative mind couldn’t believe that the government was paying all of this for everyone. After discussion with many students here it started to make more sense to me. For starters, by providing higher education to a population of its citizens, Senegal is trying to create some opportunity to lift itself out of its underdeveloped state. Leaving individual families to pay for their children is almost out of the question, and leaving students to pay for themselves through a “summer job” or working during the year is completely out of the question. Already there is an employment problem here, and second of all, students take being a student very seriously. My second realization was that the US does do things similarly through scholarships, financial aid, and financed loans. That aside, I still felt that students here almost had it better than those in the US…until I talked with my roommate about the reality of their situation. Mbéré gave me the example of her family, one that I know is applicable to many others here. The living stipend that the students receive is approximately $60 for the entire month (and that’s for the older students, the first years only get $36)! Even for here, that is relatively nothing. For her, this is all the money she has in the world. She has never known her father, who died when she was really little, and her mother doesn’t work. There are four kids in her family, she is the second oldest with her 27 year old sister being the oldest. According to her, her family has been supported by her mother’s younger brother for most of her life. As she said, “if we had an older brother, he probably would be working to support my family, but unfortunately there is only my sister who is working to support her husband through his studies. My mother can’t get a job because she is not educated, the only thing she maybe could do would be to be a merchant, but alas you need money to start something like that.” Thus goes the wicked circle of many family situations. The differences between who have it good are the people who have family members who can afford to send a little extra money to their student at the University so they don’t have to solely subsist on the stipend, and those who don’t, like Mbéré.
This conversation really put me in my place as I realized that whenever I told people, “really I don’t have that much money, I have to pay for this entire year by myself”, in relation to the type of budget they are on, I am ridiculously wealthy. I was extremely humbled by my roommate as she took the discussion with the utmost acceptance, finishing it with, “life can be difficult, but that is life. Who knows why people have to face difficulties like this, but perhaps it is just God’s will. It is life.” To top it all off, she not only survives on the stipend, but economizes on months like December so that she can buy fabric for her younger sister, so that she can have a pretty dress for Tabaski. This talk has completely given me a different perspective and understanding of how people view money here, something that I could discuss from many different angles. There are so many lessons to be learned from this that I hope to never lose. I thought that everyone back in the US might benefit from hearing about how people make just a little go a long way, and how much people sacrifice for their families.
Monday, December 3, 2007
Holiday Cheer
On Saturday morning I awoke bright and early at 8 am to make breakfast—American style. One of the other girls on the trip, Cath, and I made French toast and coffee for our roommates (who are best friends). It was a total hit and not too difficult to make with a few pots and our hot plates (think camp-stove cooking and that is the extent of the type of food I can make myself over here). As it was the first of December, Cath and I felt in the mood to start a little Christmas spirit; we decided to make paper snowflake decorations! After gathering the necessary supplies, I started cutting up the paper and showed my roommate, Mbéré how to do it. She thought it was absolutely great and so to add on, I turned on some Christmas tunes. We spent the rest of the morning cutting out snowflakes and taping them up on the walls, and singing along to the music. As I was leaving for lunch, a few of Mbéré’s friends stopped by to say hi. I explained to them that in the US most Christian houses decorate for Christmas, hence the stocking I have hung up on a wall and a little sparkly Christmas tree on my desk (thanks to a holiday package from Aunt Laura!). The snowflakes were something that usually just little kids make, but when in need of decorations, is an easy enough thing to do. I told my roommate to show them how to make the decorations as well, since they seemed to like the idea of Christmas spirit despite the fact that they are Muslim. Five hours later I finally returned home. As I walked in the door I saw all of the same girls in our room only low-and-behold our entire room was strung with paper garlands, snowflakes covered a wall, and the little mini present ornaments that my Aunt had sent me were hanging from each of the garland strands lending a completely Christmas feel to our room! So cliché I know, but my breath was taken away at that moment as I burst into a huge smile and all the girls started a ruckus in response to my pleasure. They had come up with the idea of decorating for me because of how enthusiastic I had been when I was talking about how Christmas becomes a celebration throughout the month, and not just on the 25th. I was so touched by this gesture of making me feel more at home here, where it is still 85-90 degrees and most people gear up for Tabaski, instead of Christmas. Reflecting on their kindness I relate it to the tolerance and sharing the two religions share here. It is warming to see inter-religious exchange; both sides take part in each other’s holidays and people are usually pretty open to the practices of each religion.
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Amazing Senegal Weekend
To start with I invited the group of guys I’ve been hanging out with to the French Cultural Center for a concert on Friday night. The FCC is kind of pretentious with all of the Europeans who frequent it, but they sure know good music. The group playing was three brothers, supposedly playing a mix of hip-hop and traditional African music, which really just meant that it was mbalax. At first I was a little apprehensive bringing them to the concert because I wasn’t sure if they would be into the group (the last time I went to a concert there it was mostly the middle aged crowd), but as soon as we sat down my friend Babs told me that he had the group’s music on his computer. Apparently the group is super popular in Senegal and last year they visited the campus. I loved the music. I feel so privileged to have all these music opportunities at my fingertips. There is definitely a difference in music here; everyone-the musicians, the audience-puts their whole being into the music, it’s almost tangible. It’s a crazy feeling being so involved; I know that I have already developed a much greater appreciation for their music. So everyone had a good time and afterwards we returned back to campus to hang out and, surprise, surprise…make ataaya.
Saturday morning dawned and Annie, Maren, and I just spent it lazing around. It is awesome how close the three of us have gotten. While I am excited about having Senegalese friends, I appreciate having some other American [girls] around to relate to. We all have been having similar experiences and so it is so essential to talk to someone else about the problems, situations, and adventures we have been facing. After lunch we then headed over to the beach for some quality time in the sun. The beach is such a great time, but there are some downfalls to it. For one, as a white person you are automatically targeted by all of the walking vendors. It gets pretty annoying to have to get rid of these guys trying to sell you stuff all the time. Thankfully if we start using Wolof and then explain that we are students for the year they will back off, but every once and a while you get really persistent ones. Also, you get a lot of guys who ask you to join them in their little tiki huts on the beach for tea. So far we’ve been able to deflect their requests. There have been some creepy situations though that reminds us of why we won’t go to the beach at night without a few male Senegalese companions. Other than those few annoyances, the beach is amazing. It is enormous as it is the huge peninsula that connects with Mauritania to the north.
We then went back to campus for a delicious dinner at “the resto”. It was a hard boiled egg, french fries, onion sauce, sardines, and a piece of bread…SANDWICH NIGHT!!!! Sounds so gross, but seriously, this is my favorite meal at the resto. I’ve decided that I’ll probably be making them frequently when I return to the US. After that it was back to town where we (Annie, Maren, and I) went to Amadou’s house and sat around and made tea. Amadou lives in a typical (or not typical, depending on how you look at it) Senegalese family set up. He lives with his five young girl cousins, younger brother, aunt, and grandmother. It was a super calm, relaxed night, which I was all about. I played with his youngest cousin, Xady (the equivalent of Katie in Wolof) who can’t be more than 4 years old. She was actually the cutest little girl ever; I am starting to compile a list of small children that I am going to take back to the US with me and she is right up there.
Sunday was spent in town again, although this time at Tamsir’s house (Amadou and Tamsir are best friends). We went to the market beforehand to check out fabric (bassin) for our Tabaski outfits but only Maren found what she wanted. Tuesday I bought some for myself and brought it to the tailor. I went all out and am having it made totally Senegalese style with all the embroidery and such. I’m super excited to see how it turns out. Afterwards we went to Tamsir’s so that Annie could get her hair braided, “tressed”. Before they started, Annie and I went with Xadia to a boutique to get the fake hair that Xadia was going to add in to the braids, Senegalese style. While Annie was getting her hair braided the rest of us just hung out with the rest of the family, friends, and neighbors that were constantly coming in and out of the house. Mariam, Tamsir’s sister prepared the dinner all day, so when I showed interest in learning how she made everything, she showed me all of the steps that she went through. The grandma loved the fact that I was interested in cooking and so would look in with approval on how things were going. It was such an amazing feeling how comfortable everyone was with everyone else. I keep talking about Terenga, but the four of us Americans all remarked on how accepted we were and unreal our experience was at the time. No one treated us as anything other than a normal visitor; it was like a huge party the whole day. We talked about how different things would be in the US if there were four black girls over for a regular Sunday afternoon and evening. Everyone was talking in a mix of Wolof, French, and English. And everyone was helping each other with the other language they didn’t know. This is why I love Senegal. The family also went all out on the dinner for us, their special guests. There is no end to their graciousness. We got home by midnight; not surprising seeing as how we didn’t eat until 10 pm.
I’m still kind of riding on the high of the weekend. It serves as testament to all of the good things Senegal represents. And tomorrow all of us girls are going over to an American professor’s house to celebrate Thanksgiving. I can’t wait to make the family dish for everyone, it is potluck style. Happy Thanksgiving all!
Thursday, November 15, 2007
Ocean View
Animal Farm
The city of Saint Louis has about the same number of people as Madison, yet it has much more of a town feel to it. I was remarking to my friends the other day how interesting it is that we have only been here for two and a half weeks and already I can’t go into town without running into someone I know. The island and market place (on sol-or mainland) is where all of the action is at, although this is also where all of the tourists are. There are already some favorite haunts: best places to get a sandwich late at night, where the fair/friendly vendors are, and of course my aunt Fatou’s house. Fatou has completely taken me under her wing here; I sometimes feel like I am taking place of the daughter she never had. She certainly treats me like the aunts back home…always ready to send me home with food (shout-out to Aunt Deb, Sue, and Laura). I have also become the favorite “foreign cousin” of Muhammed who is 12. The other day I taught him and Fatou the head and shoulders, knees and toes song, it was hilarious. They loved it.
There are some interesting differences about campus which have come to my attention in the past couple weeks. The first thing I noticed was that people here are actually a lot more conservative than I would have thought of a university campus. People here dress so nicely; I noted the other day that 95% of the guys wear collared shirts and nice slacks everyday to class. Females usually wear a nice pair of pants or long skirt, and shirts that we girls would wear out to a club or bar at night. Sparkles and glitter is a common theme, and not only just for girls. The night life is also not what all us Madison girls expected. Things are really calm after 10:30-11 pm during the week, and even on the weekend most people are not out and about after midnight. This was surprising after hearing from so many people that the Senegalese go out super late at night and stay out until the morning.
Another cultural thing that I immediately noticed here is that guys hold each others hands. Hand holding is super common between friends or boyfriend/gfs. Walking to class, the resto, or just on a walk, guys hold the hands of their friends. I have observed that Senegalese are very physical; personal bubbles are pretty nonexistent. Although it took some adjusting at first, I am really enjoying how comfortable everyone is with each other, regardless of how well you know someone. A little anecdote on this subject: last week the power was cut for about two hours around 10 PM. I had ended up having a quasi-party completely by chance that night, so when the power was cut we all decided to go on a walk. There were three of us American girls and the rest were Senegalese. As I was walking along with the group I was talking to one of the guys, someone I had just met that night, and he took my hand to hold it like it was no big thing. I kind of freaked out until I realized hilariously enough that everyone else was holding hands if they were walking next to someone (female-female or male-female or male-male). Reading what I just wrote makes it seem so bizarre, and it is, but at the same time it fits perfectly with how people are here.
I would also like to mention the animal situation here. While it is rare to see someone with a domesticated pet, there are tons of cats around campus. Goats are also rampant. They are usually pretty skittish around people, but there are some really cute little baby ones that us American girls always try and pet. It gets better. For some reason there is also a herd of donkeys that hang out by the dorms and classrooms. Just picture walking to your class and almost running into a huge donkey crossing your path on its way to eat the leaves off some sparse tree! The last notable animals sharing campus are the longhorn cows. Some days they’ll shack up right next to the path to the resto (the cafeteria). I told one of my Senegalese friends that I wanted to try riding one and he just laughed and said I was crazy. Hey, I can always try, there are enough people around to help me if I get speared by a raging bull. So basically I am living on a desert farm.
Class is as of yet nonexistent aside from Wolof and now French. I am hoping to start my political science classes tomorrow…we’ll see how many actually end up meeting. I’m not really sure how we are going to be getting credit for anything other than our project and Wolof, but we’ll see. I consider hanging out with my Senegalese friends class enough. I am usually exhausted at the end of every day from trying to think in French and Wolof. I also am learning a lot about the culture from conversations I have with my friends. American pop culture is totally followed here. I swear the Senegalese have to teach me what’s what in US pop culture, it’s hilarious. My favorite is the words that they pick up and try to use in a different context. I have had some very humorous moments trying to explain some of the more vulgar words, things they definitely heard from American music. People here are way more aware of current international affairs than in the US. I am constantly astounded by how much Senegalese [students] know about the public policies of other countries. It makes for very interesting discussions.
Things as you can see are slowing down in terms of exciting adventures, so if I don’t write for a while it is only because I am becoming more integrated into Senegalese life and am probably making ataaya instead (the Senegalese tea which I LOVE). Much love to the States.
Thursday, November 1, 2007
Monday, October 29, 2007
Real entry for today: first full day in Saint-Louis
The dorms are in what I think is a pretty sweet set-up. They are arranged into what are called "villages", labeled A-F. Within the villages there are "blocs" or the dorms, 7 total. My building has I think 14 or so rooms, and only two floors (some have 3 or 4). The rooms are all open to the outdoors. Inside, we each have a bed, desk, and closet. The closet to me is HUGE, much roomier than at Wisconsin, or maybe it is just that I have a lot less stuff, either way I feel like I have a ton of space. Each room also has a sink and shower connected to the room. Sounds super ritzy, but there is one downfall, they only turn on the water upstairs from 11pm to 7am... We are given buckets that we can use to fill up with water at the downstairs faucet and then bring back to our rooms. I took my first "sponge" bath yesterday, somehow I mastered it enough to feel totally refreshed and clean. The bathroom/toilet situation was another fun adventure... one has to bring what we Americans call the "bring your own flush", or a little bucket that you fill with water from the little spigot inside the stall and use to flush down the turkish toilet (it is also supposed to be used to wash yourself with, but I think I'm still going to stick with BYOTP). It seemed rather sketchy my first time, but already I feel like I am used to using one now. This whole time my roommate hadn't arrived yet so I had the place to myself, something I'm still a little grateful for. Surprisingly, I definitely was having some homesick twinges; with having to say goodbye to my host family and just having to deal with another new environment I was feeling kind of overwhelmed.
Since arriving, us girls have started to create analogies for everything here. For instance, campus reminds us of camp. Lot of sand, everything really mellow and somewhat planned, but also a lot of free time. Walking into the "resto" you are completely reminded of camp mess halls, food included. Kind of funny analogy that Jill made yesterday was that "we are the weird kids, whose only friends are the other weird kids". Being the conspicuous white kids who just arrived we all feel a little estranged but I know it will just take a little time. Other than the camp comparison, things feel strangely similar to freshman year; new roommate, need to find new friends, don't know where anything is on campus, general ignorance of what is going on. Today things have already started to come together, I recognize places and where to get here or there, etc.
Today all we did was meet with Baydallaye at noon where we also met our Islam lecturer and Wolof prof. We figured out when/where we were going to start lessons and then with Baydallaye discussed our group tour of downtown St.Louis tomorrow. In between breakfast and meeting with Baydallaye I was hanging out in my room when I heard some girls talking outside by my door. I wasn't really doing anything so I decided to bite the bullet and go out and introduce myself. It went over really well. Two of the girls were my neighbors and the third was a friend of theirs who lived in one of the other blocs. All of them were really nice and friendly to me, which was very encouraging since some of the girls who had met their roommates already said they hadn't been that welcoming. They told me that my roommate is from Mauritania and in the math department. They didn't know when she would be arriving so I'm roommateless for the moment. Kind of exciting to have a roommate from someplace other than Senegal!
It's Natalie's birthday today so we are going to try and do something fun tonight, like have a mini party for her. Kind of hard to plan things when we don't know the area, but hopefully we'll be able to make it a decent celebration.
Later!
Friday 10/26/07
ATTENTION! THIS WAS MEANT TO BE POSTED ON FRIDAY BUT BECAUSE OF THE POWER OUTAGE IT WASN'T UNTIL TODAY THAT I COULD GET IT ONLINE:
Today will be my last entry for my home-stay in
My week has been busy busy busy. I made dinner for everyone (Yaay, Papa, Douds, Sals, David, Asstou, Sally[cousin], and Dass) on Tuesday night. Basic pasta with a pre-made pesto sauce I got at the casino (supermarket) tossed with cheese, tomatoes, and roasted chicken. Don’t know how “American” it is, but it is something that I would eat at home, which was the point. It definitely was a hit, both with the family and me (I was able to cook, something I miss doing). Classic American/Minnesotan finish:
Yesterday after our Wolof “test” and Baobab evaluation 8 of us went with one of our former Baobab guides, Adema, to her studio to learn how to batik (ba-teek). Batiking is a type of design on fabrics. Typically one uses wax to make the patterns, but some batik is also hand drawings with paint. We learned what chemicals are used to make the dyes (all organic at this place): hydro sulfate and compound mixed with the dye and water. Each of us got plain white fabric and went to town using stamps dipped in melted wax and then pressed on the fabric, or a dotting technique, or free-lance painting on of the wax. After putting the designs on the fabric with the wax we wet down the cloth, then dipped it in the cold dye of our choice, and after some minutes (depending on how dark you wanted it) took it out, rinsed it in hot water to get the wax off, and then hung it up to dry. It was a totally unique experience and we all had a blast. I took a look at my patterns today and I feel so proud of myself for making my own of something very traditionally African.
Things just got better from last night. Today I went to Lac Rose with Annie, Natalie, and Douds. My cousin, Lune (means moon in French) is a taxi driver, so he gave us a good price to be rented out for the day and drive us up to the lake (which is usually about 2 hours away). We headed out about 9 (really equivalent to 10, since it’s on Senegalese time) and got there in less than the estimated 2 hours…I think we just got lucky with the traffic out of town. It was so nice to get out of the city. You don’t realize how much of a bubble you are in, and it had been so easy to forget that there is so much more out in
Á Saint-Louis!
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Goree pictures
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Monday, October 22, 2007
House of Slaves
There I am sporting the Tilly Hat on the second floor. If you look closely on the first floor the little glimpse of light is the door of no return. The second floor where I am standing is where the buyers and sellers of the slaves would stand and haggle over the price of the slave that was standing chained in that middle circle area between the two staircases.
Goree Island
Goree Island and Learning to Cook
The past few days have been chock full of activity as we are approaching our last week in
As though my long day did not tire me out enough, I decided to make use of the music scene in
Sunday was a lazy day with one exception. I woke up mid morning and made pancakes for everyone! I brought our
Today the
I can’t believe I am starting actual school in less than a week, inshallah!
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Wednesday, October 17, 2007
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Ecopole
Today was a hot one. I have no idea what the temperature was outside in the sun, but all I know is that sweat was running in rivulets down my face as I walked to class at 9 am (think sweatiness of working out). The heat is something I have definitely gotten used to though. When I first arrived I felt so gross being sweaty all the time, but now I have gotten past it and have figured out that everyone else perspires as much as I do. However, the girls and I do talk about how we could really go for a crisp midwestern autumn day about this time. October hasn’t quite felt like itself, and it’s hard to believe that we are fast approaching the end of the month.
This morning held many activities for us girls. We had typical Wolof class for two hours, but afterwards had another cultural session. Instead of staying at the
We were also led around the surrounding area where the people who are involved in the recycling process live and work. The conditions were ridiculous. All of us were made acutely aware of the financial differences between our host families and these families working for Ecopole. There was no way there was a plumbing system, meaning no toilets and worse, no running water. Houses were just shacks lined up next to each other, made helter skelter with whatever leftover materials could be had. Kids were all over the place, most wearing ratty clothing. The living quarters were wedged in right next to the working shanties, whose enterprise varied from a forgery to a woodshop. It is so surreal to see people utilizing technology that to most people in the
This afternoon we were given a surprise and met briefly for another cultural session only to be given a little piece of homework to be done with our families before meeting again. A group of us wanted to go back into downtown
So goes the adventures of downtown visits. Much is to be seen and experienced. There are always surprises, but little by little I feel as though I am getting the hang of things and these surprises are easily dealt with.
Ba beenen.
Monday, October 15, 2007
Korité
I finally got the opportunity to see the new baby on Thursday night. I went with Douds and my brother-in-law (Sally’s husband), David, to see Sally at the clinic. What a baby. She is the smallest thing I have ever seen, with quite the thatch of hair for a newborn. Sally had still not decided on a name for her which is typical in Muslim families. The process is to wait one week until the baptism before officially naming the baby.
Friday we only had Wolof class in the morning since no one knew when the actual day of Korite would be, so we all had most of the day off to explore Dakar. Right after class Cath, Natalie, and I walked to Marche HLM to check out jewelry and shoes. This was the same place that I went to last week with my cousin to get fabric. It was just as crowded although less hot as we maneuvered our way through the crowds to check out the wares. I got a few pairs of earrings for ridiculously cheap- one was $.20 and the other $1. They obviously were not of great quality, but you could find the same types in most stores in the US and they would be at least $4-5. Got to bargain for the first time; wasn’t super intense like I thought it would be, but I’m still excited about the experience.
After our adventure we met up with a few of the other girls and took a taxi up to N’Gor island. We got to take a real Piroug across the bay which was fun. These boats are the traditional fishing boats of Senegal and are somewhat infamous for their colors and designs. The beach on the island was decent. We could tell that it was definitely a tourist spot as the majority of the people on the beach were classic Toubabs (foreigners, usually just a coined term for white people). We stayed for an hour or two and then decided to explore the rest of the area. Our theories on the tourist bit were confirmed as we walked around. It felt like we were in some weird little wonderland secret garden. Huge houses (big for Senegal, for the US the square feet would probably be equivalent to typical suburban homes) with magnificent gardens took over the island and were packed next to each other with big walls separating each lot. The big rounded stone walls lined the road that we walked on, giving us the feeling that we were walking in a garden maze. There were some magnificent views of the ocean at certain points in our walk, which gave us an excuse to stop and take everything in. We got back just at sunset in time for the final breaking of the Ramadan fast. My night was like pretty much every other one this week, I hung out with Douds on the terrace/patio upstairs listening to music and chatting until late in the night.
Korite, the huge celebration that has been building over the course of the fasting month of Ramadan. I woke at about 9 am to the sounds of the house preparing for all the visitors. I had told my yaay that I would help, although when it came down to it, I felt kind of in the way or totally not needed. Therefore, I took up the one job I had had lots of practice with, watching Abdoul Aziz (my 17 month old nephew). By mid morning most of the house was ready. I was given ngalax, a millet sort of equivalent to hot oatmeal with a sweet peanut sauce, for breakfast. This is a traditional dish served specially for Korite. My yaay made a ridiculous amount of ngalax so that she could give some away to friends, which I assume is equivalent to Christmas cookie give-away for Christians. I found it to be tasty, although the sauce gets to be kind of intense about halfway through. I finally got my dress back from the tailleur (tailor). It turned out really well, especially seeing as how I motioned with my hands and used only a few words in French to tell the guy what I wanted. I did have some issues with the bust area, so Maman stripped me out of the dress and did some quick seamstress work. She completely fixed it, but in the process ended up taking in about an inch around my waist…that tightness combined with my peigne, which is the underneath skirt you wear like a wraparound, was rather uncomfortable throughout the day, but at least everything stayed in place. Dressing me up in the traditional style clothing was really fun for my yaay and aunt. I found how personal modesty is pretty nonexistent as I stood in my underwear and bra for about a half an hour while Yaay prodded me, sewed my dress, and Asstou cinched me into the peigne (oh Mom, only you would of appreciated the height placement of the skirt, think natural waist plus 2 inches higher).
Lunch came at around 4 pm. I accompanied Douds to his friend Bill’s house to eat. Apparently he and his friends have the tradition of eating at Bill’s every year for Korite. I wasn’t complaining, the food was excellent. We had couscous (oh man yes, something other than rice!), with the onion sauce, and chicken and mutton. What an experience eating crammed around the bowl with about 10 other Senegalese guys and one girl. They were packing it in! I don’t think I have ever seen that much food eaten. The bowl kept being refilled and refilled. I was finished after the first round! Those of you who know my eating habits would be floored to see this group take it in. It is a battle every night to refuse more food, and yesterday was even more so as everyone kept telling me to eat more. Once everyone finished we went to the outside deck of the house and sat around talking and making ataaya (Senegalese tea which I have taken a strong liking to). Everyone was speaking mostly in Wolof, but every once in a while someone would talk to me in French. I actually really enjoyed hanging out despite not knowing what people were talking about. Later I went back to the house to be with the new baby and Sally. I ate again at about 8:30 with my yaay and papa. Everyone left the house relatively early resulting in the parents going to bed earlier than normal. I took a nap for an hour before heading over to Cath’s house for a little gathering with all of the girls. We hung out on her roof with all of us, plus two girls who are with the Kalamazoo program and are doing a shorter program in reverse of ours (they are in Saint-Louis right now and are coming back to Dakar, but lived with two of the girls in our program’s families), and Moussa and a couple of his friends. A few of us later in the night decided to hitch a ride with Natalie’s brother and friend on their way to a dance club, so we didn’t have to pay for a cab. We arrived on perfect Senegalese time, sometime after 1 am. It was a really fun time; the club wasn’t super crowded so we actually had space to dance. I saw two guys rocking it with the mbalax style dancing so I went over and started trying to copy their moves. They thought it was pretty funny, this white girl in full Senegalese garb trying to move like them. In retrospect I don’t think I was half bad; we’ll see how it goes next time. I came back home way past my usual weekend bedtime (early for Senegalese), but proud of myself for making it that late.
Today I got to experience a Muslim baptism. It was the biggest family gathering ever. My observation was that it was more about the entire family than either the mother or the new baby. I took tons of pictures because the actual ceremony was pretty cool. The Muslim religious man (I think he is called an Isman) gives a sermon and at the end blesses the baby with its new name by whispering the name in each ear. The rest of the day was spent split between the house of Sals and my house, where everyone ate. I am dog tired now, all the stimulation of meeting a ton of people, eating like its my job, and trying to think in French has been quite the killer.
A toute a l’heure.
Tuesday, October 9, 2007
New Baby in My Family!!!!
Saturday night I “went out” with Douds. Because it is Ramadan things are much slower paced; most clubs and bars are closed, and everyone just “chills” as Douds likes to put it. We went to his neighborhood hangout where I met a bunch of his friends. He has known all of them since he was born; kind of cool that the “neighborhood gang” has been together for all of these years. After an hour or two Douds and I walked over to another hangout, an American fast food place called Ceasars. We just sat and talked for a couple hours while I got an ice cream, what a treat! Douds is an awesome host brother, while we hung out with his friends he would periodically stop to explain to me what was going on. The relationships they have with each other are fun to observe. They speak in a mixture of Wolof, French, and “cool/gangsta” English words. When it was just Douds and I at Ceasars, we had some really fun conversations; he taught me some “street slang” (aka somewhat bad words, hehehe) and we just joked around for a while. I surprised myself by being able to understand as well as crack jokes in French, something I’m rarely able to do in English, let alone another language. All in all, a good night.
Sunday was also an early morning, seeing as how I didn’t get to bed until 3am (and Douds even brought me home early, he went back out again after walking me home)! On Friday the entire group of girls had decided to go to l’ile de Madeleine, an island off the coast of Dakar. With Cath’s host brother leading, bright and early we set off on foot, to the departure point for the island. When we finally got there we had to take two boats as one was already partially filled with another group. It is a 40 minute round trip so I along with 5 others waited for the return boat. As I approached the island on the boat my breath was caught by the majesty of the dark rocks, jutting straight up from the ocean floor. To get onto the island the boat has to dart in between the cliffs and dock at a small rock pier. With the waves crashing against the sides of the island it looked a bit perilous, but as soon as we entered the little islet the waves calmed and I saw little pockets where the waves had carved out little pools for swimming in. There was one tree on the whole island so shade was hard to come by, but the sun felt great since I was in a swimsuit and had the ocean at my feet. Of course after about an hour, I could feel the UV rays rocking my unseasoned skin so a little late I frantically applied the SPF. The burn hasn’t been that bad because I thankfully brought aloe here, my only complaint could be the wicked suntan lines I have now acquired. I stayed later with part of the group which ended up being an excellent choice because it cooled down significantly later in the afternoon and we were able to experience the island at a more pleasant temperature. Last night I stayed up despite my sun exhaustion to watch Douds at the coiffure. Senegalese are very fastidious with their appearance, taking care to always look good. He goes to the “hairdresser” twice a week to get his head and facial hair shaved. Chalk that one up to a sweet Senegalese experience.
Today I had normal Wolof classes as well as a cultural session on the Senegalese education system. The exciting news of the day was that Sals (my older sister) just had her baby!! A little girl. She has yet to name her, but the christening will probably be next Monday. I’m so excited to be able to be a part of it all. The whole family is very happy as both the baby and Sals are healthy. Tomorrow I will get to go visit her at the clinic, I can’t wait.
Friday, October 5, 2007
Meeting the host family
I am living in the area of Mermoz, pretty much smack dab in the middle of Dakar. My host family is pretty well-off; apparent from the super nice living room/dining room that they have, and the fact that everyone has/had a job. I have my own room which is small (compared to mine back home), but is perfect for the amount of stuff I have. I share a bathroom with my older brother, Douds (pronounced, “Dudes”). My family really consists of Maman and Papa and Douds. My parents are both grandparents, their two oldest daughters have small kids. Their oldest lives in Washington DC with her husband, who works for a big bank. Salimata (Sally) is in her 30’s and is very pregnant with her second child. Her first, Abdoul Aziz is 17 months old, and the cutest little boy I have ever seen. The two of them don’t live at the house, but they are there for most of the day, every day. Sally is the one who helps me with my French the most, correcting me when I say things wrong, something I really appreciate. Douds is 30, and works for a computer company making websites for other companies. He has been the most helpful and is always trying to make me feel at home. The first night was not as awkward as I thought it would be. My French is terrible, and my family was rather surprised when I told them I took French for 5 years, but I think they understood a little better when I said I took a break for 2 years. The kids and Papa are all fluent in English, so in a pinch I am able to ask what the translation is in English. We looked at my photos and then ate dinner together around the bowl on the ground. They have a nice deck/patio on the second floor where everyone eats and hangs out. It is really nice at night because you can catch a breeze which cools things down quite a bit. Everyone is very patient with my questions, all formed in the worst way, but I am learning a lot about the relationships within a family.
Yesterday I got up for class and walked to the Baobab center by myself. It is about a 10-15 minute walk. I really enjoy walking to school by myself as it gives me a sense of independence in this big city. We started Wolof on Wednesday so I now know the basic salutations. Being able to greet people is really important in Senegal and people are still surprised and pleased when I can say hello and ask how they are. We had our first cultural session yesterday where we started to learn about different Wolof words which convey a Senegalese value. They all are charged with such meaning that it is interesting that there is no straight translation for any single word. For example my favorite word yesterday was Jom, which is loosely translated as hardworking, perseverance, and the courage to be strong. We all had lunch together at the center around the bowl, only with our hands. We learned the correct practices and manners for when you eat around the bowl. It feels like you are going back to when you touched everything as a little baby. Our teacher explained it in a better way though, that eating with your hands is more natural, and actually the oils in your hand break down food easier. Interesting to say the least. Unfortunately by lunchtime I had started to feel a little under the weather; my stomach region was starting to react to the new environment. When we commenced the afternoon session I was having a hard time of things and so left to lie down for a while. I ended up getting sick a few times, the first one of the group! Thankfully we had a late lecture with a doctor, so while I was delirious and going in and out of sleep, he was able to prescribe me with Peridys, a medicine that helped with my nausea. When I got home (after two of the girls brought me back in a taxi) Douds went and got the medicine for me and so I just rode out the sickness for the night. My family was really nice throughout, trying to make sure I had everything I wanted. Even though I know it was their job, I was so grateful for their hospitality.
Today I slept in, hoping to give my body some more time to adjust. I missed my Wolof lesson, but I know it was better to get the rest. I made it to the Baobab center in time to go to the Downtown sortie. We took the bus to get to the heart of Dakar. What a trip! First off, I realized on the ridiculously crowded bus that I perhaps was not fully recovered. I was able to get a seat for most of the trip which helped matters ten-fold, but wow, think of how you would feel pressed up against either heavily perfumed, or total B.O.ed sweaty people in 90 degree weather in a confined space, not good combinations. It seemed only appropriate that our first public transportation experience ended in our bus breaking down in the middle of the road and so we had to wait for about 15 minutes until we could get on to the next one. Downtown reminded me of any other big city, lots of people, tons of sellers trying to hawk their wares on the side of the street, and cars everywhere. The taxi situation here is somewhat comical. Horns are used for everything, whether to just say, “I am behind you” or the equivalent of a catcall, the air is always filled with the noise. While we were downtown we stopped by the huge market that Dakar is famous for. A little intimidating, but I’m excited to go back when I feel a little bit better.
Tonight I am going to go out with the other girls in the program for Megan’s birthday. We are going to find a restaurant and then afterwards there is a free play we heard about through the Babobab center that we are going to try and go see. First night “out on the town”…hope all goes well.
Alxamdulilah.
Tuesday, October 2, 2007
First Real Day in Dakar
I cant really believe I am here, things still seem like a dream. Getting by with my french is not as bad as I thought, although we'll see what happens when I am on my own with the family.
Today we got a mini tour by some of the ladies (about our age maybe a little older) who work at the baobab center around Dakar. Things remind me a little of Mexico if I could compare it to anything-the heat/temperature (we are still in their summer so it is hot and humid even for them...aka like 90-95°), people all over the streets, the level of poverty, etc. The architecture in the area we are in is very similar to the styles of the middle east, think lots of arches and stone/plaster. I saw my first baobab tree! They are all over the city and not as big as the ones you see out on the plains, but still impressive.
So far though, I don't feel as out of place as I thought I would be as a white female. People have been super friendly; firsthand evidence of their hospitality. We start Wolof classes tomorrow which will be good because way more people speak it than outsiders believe. People are also way more impressed with you when you break out the Wolof. They laugh at us "toubabs" or foreigners but you can tell that it pleases them a lot to hear someone try to speak their native tongue. The gals who were our tour guides in the morning came over to our apartment while we ate (it is still Ramadan for them so most of them were fasting and didn't eat, although if you are a woman with your period you don"t have to follow it for the week) and hung out with us until we had to go back to the center. They were an awesome source of random Wolof vocab as well as just fun to ask girly cultural questions. If these ladies are anything like other Senegalese females, they are super open about everything.
The food has been well prepared for us every meal, I feel rather spoiled. Same type of food as what I experienced at my orientation in Madison; cooked root vegetables in some type of spice with rice and lots of baguette! They also do this casserole type thing with peas and beef and a sort of gravy/sauce...just like home. The only thing is that most things are made hot or cooked, which means you sweat even more than usual; hot food on a hot day, definitely very different from what we are used to. Breakfast is like how the French do things; baguette with their version of nutella, or jam, or this awesome swiss spreadable cheese. They gave us bananas for dessert at lunch, oh man I was so pumped. Fruit never tasted so good.
The girls on my program are all really fun. We've bonded like crazy in just these few days. I'm excited to have them around as we all seem pretty ready to be independent and meet Senegalese people, but also come back together to rehash the funny mishaps and discuss the new culture. I forsee more good times to come.
This little synopsis of my day has taken me quite a while to chicken peck out so I will need to cut this short, but I hope you are all doing well back home. To those of you who are going to skype, I'll be working on that as soon as possible; bear with me, time moves much slower and relaxed in these parts of the world.
As the Senegalese say: Jamm ak Jamm!

















